Have You Been Loving Mother?

Old Woman

In Japan, there had been a tradition throw an old man into the woods. They are discarded are parents who are helpless, so as not to burden her children's lives.

One day a young man who intends to dispose of his mother into the forest, because the mother has been paralyzed and somewhat senile. The youth seemed hurried through the forest while carrying his mother. The mother who looked helpless trying to reach every branch that can be achieved and then break it and sprinkle along the path they travel.

Once in a very dense forest, the lower the child's mother and said good-bye as he tried to hold sad because she did not think would do this deed to his mother. Instead of the woman who looks strong, the smile he said, "my son, mother love you very much since you were little until adulthood, the mother always take care of you with all my love. Even to this day think my love is not reduced at all.

Mother had been marked along the way we pass through the brush. mother was afraid you'd get lost, follow the signs to get you home safely. "Upon hearing these words, the child was crying very loudly, then hugged his mother and carried her back to bring the mother back home. The young man finally a very loving caring mother until her mother died.

 

Dear brother!

Parents are not damaged goods that can be discarded or ignored after a helpless look. Because when we succeed, or when we are hard, only 'parents' who understands us, and his mind will suffer if we are hard.

Remember!

Our parents never leaves us, however our circumstances, even though we never disrespectful to parents .. But the father and mother we would still love us. From now on let us love our parents while they are still alive, or pray when it died before us.

"And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and let the mother do well with the best father. if any one of them or two of them in old age maintenance of your, so do not ever say to both words 'ah' and they do not yell and say to them a noble word. "(Qur'an 17:23) . Wallahu a'lam bishawab.

Source: Trainerlaris.com with title: Sudahkan anda menyayangi ibu Written By M. Nurcholis, edited by vahruddin Jayadi

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A bowl of hot noodles

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At night, Ana quarreled with her mother. Because very angry, Ana immediately left the house without carrying anything. When walking on a street, She realized that she was ill with the money.

When walking through a street, she passed a noodle shop and she smelled the scent of cooking smells. She wanted to order a bowl of noodles, but it broke.

Shop owner saw her standing in front of a long bar, and said "Miss, do you want to order a bowl of noodles?" "Yes, but, I'm ill with the money" Ana replied shyly
"It's okay, I'll buy you" replied the proprietor. "Please sit down, I'll cook noodles for you".

Not long later, the proprietor was delivering a bowl of noodles. Ana quickly ate a couple of bites, and then the tears began to tear. "What lady?"
Asked the proprietor.
"Okay" I'm just thrilled Ana answered, drying her tears.

"In fact, I know a new one gave me a bowl of noodles!, But,? my own mother, after a fight with me, threw me out of the house and told me not to come back home "
"You, a new familiar, but so concerned with me than with his own birth mother" she told the proprietor.

The owner of the diner after hearing the words of Ana, took a deep breath and said "Miss why you think like that? Think about this, I just gave you a bowl of noodles and you're so moved. Your mother has cooked noodles and rice for you when you were little until now, why do not you thank him? And you're even arguing with him "

Ana, was shocked to hear that they will be. "Why would I think you know about this ill-tsb? A bowl of noodles for new-org dr know, I was so
thank you, but to my mother wrote to cook for me for many years, I did not even show concern for him. And just because a trivial issue, I argued with him.

Ana, immediately spent her noodles, and Ana steeled herself to get back to her home. As I walked into the house, she thought the words should be spoken reply to his mother. Once in the house doorway, she saw his mother, his face weary and anxious. When meeting with Ana, the first sentence out of his mouth is "Ana you're home, come quick, I
has to make dinner and eat before you sleep, food will be cold if you do not eat it now ". At that time Ana could not help crying and she cried before his mother.

Once upon a time, we may be very grateful to the other org around us for a little help given to us. But to someone who is very close to us (family), especially our parents, we must remember that we are grateful to them for life We.

REFLECTION:

However we must not forget our Parent Services. Often we think they are a natural process for granted. But the love and concern for our parents is the most precious gift given to us since birth. Think about it!
Do we want to appreciate the unconditional sacrifice of our parents?

Hey Children, obey your parents in everything, because that's the beautiful in the Lord.
(Source : semangkuk bakmi panas, 1001Motivation)

Love

A six-year boy was running away from home. Moments earlier, the sound of broken glass could stop the rush of people around the house. There herbalist, artisans vegetables passing, some passersby. They looked around for a while, and said softly, "Ah, the boy again!"

Naughty child behavior was not a new sight for the people who are often around the house. Almost every day, even three times a day, the boy made the noise. And the noise is always going on around her house. Began to sound the broken glass, a door open with a loud, and had just happened, breaking glass windows.

As always, a mother came out shortly after that bad boy ran away from home. Calling the child, the mother did not show anger burning hue. Not really shouting threats, generally keeping an upset. He was just calling her names and two words after, "Come here honey!"


This time, the child is not usual that kept running away. He stopped. He turned to the voice calling his name. "Mother," he hissed softly. Pissed face suddenly turned pale remorse. And he allowed himself was approached by a man whom he called mother.

"My son!" the mother's voice while his right hand grabbed the boy's hair. The hand was gently stroking the child's hair.

"Mom, mom is not angry?" voice of the child while her face looked up at her mother's face. "My son, why she should be angry?" his mother answered curtly.

The boy suddenly clutched her a slightly bent align themselves with his son. "Mom," the boy's voice suddenly. As she continued stroking the hair of the child, the mother's face shows more cool smile on her eyes. "What, dear?" the mother said softly.

"Why mom could be like this? And I've been so naughty?" asked the child who began to loosen her arms.

"My son," said the mother. "This is love!" continued the voice of the mother while still revealing a soft smile to her son.

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So many bad behavior of human children on this earth. So much damage they are putting out so that life becomes noisy. The people who happened to be around, too, feel the noise disruptions.

But, along with naughty behavior, always appeared soft voices of children calling people to return. Like, a call that says, "Go back, dear!"

In fact, the children of men who bad not even slightly comparable to the towering mountain prowess, the magnitude of lightning is ready grabbing, rigidity of the rock composition of the earth that was so easy to squeeze the living creatures on it. Not to mention the brunt of the magnitude of ocean waves that can be changed drastically so scary.

But why, exactly a soft voice that always called from behind away human children are naughty.

Love. That might be an appropriate answer. Spoken like the mother to her child, "Love my son!" Or in another language, as spoken by the Almighty dear, "Warahmati wasi'at kulla sya'i, My love covers all things!" (muhammadnuh@eramuslim.com)

Life is a choice

Jerry was a restaurant manager in America. He
always in good spirit and always had a thing
positive to say. If someone asked
him about what he was doing, he
would always reply, "If I can be a more
well, I'd rather be twins! "

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Many ministers in the restaurant out if Jerry moved
work, so they can continue to follow the
one restaurant to another restaurant. Reasons why
the waiters followed Jerry out
is because of her attitude.

Jerry was a natural motivator. if employees
was having a bad day, he was always there in
there, telling the employee how to look at
the positive side of the situation being experienced.

Seeing this style really made me
curious, so one day I met Jerry and
asked him, "I do not understand! No way
someone becomes a positive-minded people
all the time.

How can you do? "Jerry said,
"Every morning I wake up and say to myself, I
have two options today. I can choose to
is in a good mood or vote in
a bad mood. I always vote in the atmosphere
good. Every time something happens, I can
choose to be a victim or I learned from
incident. I always choose
learn from it. Each have someone deliver
complaints, I can choose to receive complaints
they or I can take the positive side ..
I always choose the positive side. "

"But it is not always that easy," I protested. "Yes,
it is, "Jerry said," Life is a
choice. When you remove the whole problem, each
it is a choice. You choose how
responding to all the circumstances.
You choose how people around you
affected by feeling.
You chose to exist in good condition or
bad. It is your choice how you live. "

A few years later, I heard Jerry had
disaster unthinkable happened in
the restaurant business: do not let the back door
locked in one morning and robbed by three men
armed. When trying to open the safe, his hand
shaking with nerves and one dial
combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.
Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and immediately taken to
hospital.

After undergoing surgery for 18 hours and a week
intensive care, Jerry was able to leave home
pain in several parts of the bullet was still in
in the body. I saw Jerry about six months after
the disaster.

When I asked Jerry how he was doing, he
replied, "If I can be better, I'm more
like to be twins. Want to see the former
my wounds? "I looked down to see his wounds,
but I was also asked what the
his mind as the robbery.

"The first thing that comes to mind is
that I had to lock the back door, "Jerry replied.
"Then after they shot and I
lying on the floor, I remembered that I had two
choices: I could choose to live or die. I
choose to live. "

"Are you not afraid?" I asked. Jerry continued,
"The great medical experts. They kept saying that
I'll recover. But when they wheeled me into the room
emergency room and saw the expression on the faces of doctors
and sisters I was so scared. Their eyes said 'People
This will die '. I knew I had to take
action. "

"What are you doing?" I asked. "There is
fat nurse who asked me, "said Jerry." He
asked if I had allergies. 'Yes' I replied ..

The doctors and nurses stopped working and they
waiting for my answer. I took a deep breath and
yelled, 'Bullets! " Amid the laughter of their I
say, 'I choose to live. Help me
operated as a living, not dead '. "

Jerry can live because of the expertise of doctors, but
also because of his amazing life. I
learned from him that every day you can choose
whether you will enjoy your life or hate it.

One thing that yours truly could not
controlled by others is the attitude of your life,
so if you can control it and all
things in life will be easier.

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A Little Girl and The Golden Box

In a poor family, a father looked annoyed at his daughter who was three years old. His daughter had just spent the money to buy gold wrapping paper to wrap a gift box.

The next day, the girl was given the gift as a birthday gift to his father.

"This is for dad," said the girl child.

The father was so angry. But when he opened the box and get it empty, the burst of anger.

"Do not you know, if you presented a gift to someone, you have to give an item in this box!"

The little girl looked at him with tears in her eyes. She said sobbing, "Oh my father, actually I've put something into the box."

"What you put into this box? Did not you see this box empty? "Shouted his father.

"Oh dad, really I have put nearly a thousand kisses to my father into the box," whispered the girl.

The father was shocked to hear her little girl. He then hugged tightly to her daughter and apologized.

It is said, people tell me that, he always put a gift box is on the edge of his bed until the end of life. Whenever he experienced disappointment, anger or a heavy burden, he thought there were thousands of kisses in the box that reminds her daughter love.

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And indeed we have received a gold box filled with unconditional love from parents, wife / husband, child, spouse, friends and our friends. Nothing is more beautiful and valuable in life than love.

Adapted from: Ana Lucia, A Little Girl and The Golden Box

Learning Tree of Life of An Old Man

Life is a process. Face with RIGID!

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Once there was a child who had just graduated from school to go to town. The main goal to find a job. And of course change the fate. He's just an ordinary farmer's son. Every day he was always accustomed to a very simple life. His parents were too old to be reliable. Finally, before his departure to the city. He also met with his father to ask for advice. "Dad, your son tomorrow morning is going to go into town in search of work. Father would allow me to go ". The man said, "My son, the father can not give any stock? But before you go. Dad wanted to show something to you. "The boy saw his father quizzically. "Is it, father?". The father did not answer. He smiled and said, "Come with me?". Then he was walking. Followed by his son from behind with a question mark.

Apparently they went to the back yard. There was an old tree is very large. He's probably been hundreds of years. They went up. And standing right in front of the old tree. The father then said, "My son let you see this old tree?". The child begins to notice that old tree. He could see only an old tree does not have any meaning. Its trunk is also very difficult to be embraced by relying on his own. It takes three to five people. This tree did not know what types of plants including? That he knew this tree was there since he was little. It could be before he was born. "Dad, I do not see the special of this tree". Replied the boy. The father also slowly begin to approach the tree more closely. And his hands had touched the root of the tree. Then he said, "The tree is so sturdy stand up to the present. And we never take care of. And he grows naturally. When the rain he had become wet. The summer he had a drought. But through the process of rain and drought make him a solid and strong. "

The father looked at his son with a full sense. As he went on to say, "Every time you face the problem when you're in town. Remember this tree? He can pass it well. Although you have a big problem though. It all makes you stronger and tougher. No crashes by a large wind. Rely on the Creator to help your life. If you only rely on yourself and others is only temporary. You are more disappointed. But if you rely on the Creator, you never disappointed. "The father was ending the conversation with the child. The child begins to understand. In the city later that he should be ready to face any difficulty. And only rely on the Creator, he must successfully achieve their dreams.

Reader

In our lives today. We are always teransang to achieve rapid success. The term instantly cool. Without taking the trouble. And we all know that there is a law of nature that we can not avoid the legal process. Try to remember when we were babies. We started from learning to crawl. Through trial and error process several times. Maybe it could also hundreds of times. We just can learn to stand. After our legs strong and sturdy. It was not until we started walking. Starting from one, two, three step process smoothly. Then we started to walk. After our smooth running, then we run, climb, jump and all the other activities we can do. Is it all instantly? The answer must be. NO!. All through a struggle PROCESS.

My question is, how so we can get through this life process is strong and sturdy? Of course we must be ready to face any difficulties that come. Not avoid it. Look at the hard rock. Can penetrate through the process of dripping water continuously. With tested makes us become stronger mentally. Here comes our mental powers such as courage, perseverance, loyalty, etc.. And one more thing that makes us strong is that we must have a MENTOR. People who are ready to provide input for each of our progress. Mentor is the most loyal of our parents. They are the driving force for us more advanced. We can choose a mentor, someone who already has the achievement and reputation in the field that we field. Not only provide criticism. But he was also able to guide us to be successful. And do not forget the true mentor is the Creator himself. We must always listen to his advice. Through prayer regularly. Do not forget we are grateful for your gift every day.

(Daniel Kurniawan)
NEVER EVER GIVE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Learning From Birds & Worms

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If we are experiencing hardship because of
crush the material needs, then we try to remember
in birds and worms.
We see birds every morning out of the nest
to find food. Not previously imagined where
and where he must find the necessary food.
Therefore, sometimes the evening he came home with a stomach
full and can bring food for his family,
but sometimes it was just enough food for his family,
while he had to "fast". In fact, he often
home without carrying anything for his family so that
he and his family must be "fast". Although birds
more often experience food shortages because not
have "office" that remain, especially after the land
diserobot many people, but that obviously we
have never seen a bird trying to
suicide.


We never saw a bird suddenly
dived banged her head on a rock. We
have never seen a bird that suddenly
immerse themselves into a river. We never
saw a bird who choose to drink poison
end his suffering. We see the birds remain
rizki optimistic about the promise of God.


We'll see, though hungry, every morning he still
Twitter with sweet. Birds seem to realize
true that this life, a time to be
above and on the other slammed into the bottom of time. A
time advantages and shortcomings later. A
satiation and on the other time when famine.

Now let us look weaker animals
of birds, the worms.

If we notice, the animal was as if no
have a reasonable means to survive or
survival. He does not have legs, hands,
horn or perhaps even he did not have
eyes and ears. But he is also living
and, together with other living things, he has
when the stomach is not filled then it will die. But
we see, with all its limitations, the worm
never despair and frustration to find
rizki. We've never seen a worm that
banging his head against a rock.

Now we see the human. If we compare
a bird or a worm, then the facilities owned
people to earn far more sophisticated.

But why people who provided many advantages
This is often lost from the bird or worm?
Why do humans much of the desperate and committed suicide
facing difficulties faced?
And think-think we have never seen a worm
who attempted suicide because of despair.

Apparently we need a lot to learn from the birds and worms.