Istiqomah (Stay in truth) In the Life (Life Management)

Managing Life Around to Success is always in every activity with the Satria Hadi Lubis

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Question

I am a Lecturer in State College, I had never done deeds to the corruption and fraud cases (about 5 million) in the office, but Praise God gives us guidance so that I do not want to do things like that, and the corruption has been my return to work.
Right now my wife and my best to eat something good shape and the halal way to get it. But sometimes the system at work there that made me Weton to act honestly.
Examples of financial accountability reports for a fee, which should be for a fee but the activities reported for honorariums B activity in which I received honorariums is because I do activities A. But do not do activities B.
I am sometimes confused on the one hand I want to istiqomah in honesty but, on the one side of the office system is difficult for the breakthrough. Please advice.



Answer

Praise Father JK, I respect have become part of many people who want to truly "fight jihad" in the middle of the system covered by the corruption. It was common knowledge that corruption was rampant in many sectors of our lives. And it is not easy to get away from temptations, but we must try to fight this case at least for ourselves.

When we are in a system and we can control the system, then it is an obligation that we should be able to eliminate the culture of corruption in the system by cleaning every aspect that can lead to stimulation for corruption and take stern action against any perpetrators. But if we had been trapped in a corrupt system that inevitably we sprayed accept such funds without us want, then we must return the funds at its source. Let's say that you can not accept it.

How difficult is returned if the funds and effect even greater harm and great harm my survival? So if you receive these funds should not be used for consumptive needs of your everyday. Do you create to meet the needs of your family.

But corruption is channeled money to the interests of public facilities. Facilities in the physical form required by the crowd. For example the construction of roads, etc. Public toilets.

Salute to you that trying to escape from the grip of very strong corruption is all around us. And hopefully resolve this you can be a burning passion for someone else to help each other extinguish the rampant corruption that is around us.

Generating spirit Husband (Life Management)

Here are frequently asked questions about Generating spirit Husband (Life Management) , the keynote speaker Satria Hadi Lubis

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Assalamu'alikum wr. wb. Sir,

go directly to the problem:
My husband works in Jakarta, while we lived in Parung, driving to work about two hours. Lately, he often complained of physical tired because the trip is far too tired due to workload inner (excess thinks) in the office.
Hearing my husband complains it is also so affected by negative energy, I also became an innate want angry.
Our house is far away from work because it was merely capable. Right now my husband wants to get out of work.
How do I motivate my husband that the work is worship and when served with sincerity can be more easily.

Mother Oi

Answer
Oi Mother I respect, work is already a duty husband in providing for the family. And therein lies the responsibility of a head of household.
A husband and wife as a companion also play an important role in helping the success of her husband worked.
A large workload in the office, only at the outpouring of his wife complain.
Oi Mother Try to always comfort her when she complained. Entertainment that's become one of the recipes my husband to be motivated again that he worked hard for it not in vain.
Gentle words of the wife is in providing the understanding that the work is worship and jihad is the field of a husband of course has its own value in the husband's heart.
Gratitude and good reception from the wife can also be a morale factor for the husband to work and improve their quality of work.
May be different when the husband came home with a sense of fatigue, but when he got home was waiting for 'fatigue' others.
Resulting in additional stress for the husband alone. Khadija's story is always entertaining and accompanying Muhammad. in the early prophetic examples may be an important role of a wife.

Feeling lazy (Life Management)

Here are frequently asked questions about feeling lazy, the keynote speaker Satria Hadi Lubis

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Questions

Sir, how lazy against the entrenched sense in us? Thank you in advance.

Fatahillah

Answer

Fatahillah, think lazy is the most dangerous excuse. This is because he killed your potential. When feeling lazy, you'll appear below your maximum performance, so you become less valuable and less useful in the presence of myself and others. Therefore, a sense of laziness to be fought. Lazy to make one's potential to be hidden or appear but too late. Sloth makes someone like paralyzed. Limp and powerless to avoid it. His mind becomes irrational, his soul is empty and the actions to be irresponsible. How can I fix? Many ways have been offered the experts to handle, but the most effective way is: Just do it! (do it, without delay!). So to overcome feeling lazy, just what do you think should be done. Do not wait and do not look for a reason! Whatever the reason for delaying the work, forget it! For most of the reason is the reason sought. Because of that, just do it! Do it now! Because if you delay the more you are lazy and afraid to do so. Instead increasingly delayed, the more excited and motivated you to do so. In addition, you also need to know that sometimes the spirit of doing a job just to come and the greater the same time as you do the job. The spirit of work often appears not before doing the work, but when you do the job. This is the secret of overcoming feeling lazy, If your mind starts trying to rationalize for the delay, saying loudly and firmly to yourself: Just do it! No Reasonable! Do it now! Do many reasons! Then you will be able to overcome feeling lazy and do not procrastinate doing the work.