Perhaps many know the form of crab, but not many know the nature of the crab. I hope you do not have a malevolent nature of the crab.
In the Philippines, rural communities loved to catch and eat crabs fields. Crabs were small in size but it was quite delicious. The crabs were caught easily at night, then put into a bowl / container, without bound.
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The next day, the crabs will be boiled and then eaten for side dishes for a few days. The most interesting of these habits, the crabs that will always try to get out of the basin, their strength, by using claws, powerful claws. But a reliable crabber always calm although his catch was always trying to escape.
The recipe is only one, namely the hunter knew perfectly well the nature of the crab.
If there is a crab that almost escaped out of the basin, his friends would be pulled back to basics again. If there is more to rise rapidly to the mouth of the basin, again his friend would pull down ... and so on until finally nothing worked out. The next day the hunters lived boiled them all, and die of envy herd of crabs that.
Similarly, in this life ...
we unconsciously sometimes be like the crabs that. That should be fun if a friend or relative we experience our success even suspect, lest it achieved success in ways that are not bener. Especially in the business or other things that contain elements of competition, the nature of envy, spite, or more real hypocrites and if not soon we realize we have unwittingly kill ourselves.
Success will come if we can realize that in business or competition is not important who wins, but more importantly than that how far we can develop ourselves fully. If we grow, we may win or may lose in a competition, but that we must win in this life.
Sign someone is a 'crab':
1. Always remember the error outside party (could be other people or circumstances) the past and make it a principle / guidelines in the act
2. Many criticize but no change
3. Hobbies other people's shortcomings but do not know the weaknesses of his own so he is occupied only attract the crabs that come out of the basin and to forget himself escape attempt.
... Should the crabs that help one another out of the basin, but yach ... much needed soul to do it ...
Without really realizing many of the crabs that are around us we do not realize had become "Dream Stealer" (thief dreams) you slowly. Think about how much time you used to think of ways to be a winner. In social life, business, school, or religion. And change the time to think of ways to develop yourself into a healthy person and successful.
"Dream High" and Never ever give up. (Yoliandri)